Showing posts with label diagnosis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label diagnosis. Show all posts

Monday, September 1, 2025

DSM-5 AUTISM DIAGNOSTIC CRITERIA---REWRITTEN BY A REAL LIVE AUTISTIC PERSON

Dear Persons,


Here, as promised, is my rewriting of the most commonly used publicly available DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for autism. 

It’s still clinical and doesn’t reflect what I personally would say about my neurology, never mind the brains and minds of the many, many Autistic people I’ve come to know. I myself would write a very different definition (we actually discuss this in our recent podcast).


And please note that I have issues with diagnosis, considering that autism is more properly an identity and way of human being than a “condition.” 


I’ve spoken frankly about “medical” diagnosis and the diseaseification/pathologization of autism in many of my talks, especially in this keynote about developing better neurodiversity paradigms. And I’ve written about it at length here on my blog and here [click on “Free Resources and Downloads”] in the FREE online fourth section of our most recent #ActuallyAutisticBook, under “Working for systemic evolution, No. 1: Shift professional paradigms.”


But I know that a diagnosis is still needed in many educational, therapeutic, medical, and other gatekeeping contexts. 


And it can give people really helpful tools and resources. 


So I thought perhaps this primary aspect of most diagnostic processes could benefit from improvement! 


It took a long time to update just this small amount of text because I had to do it in small doses. Kind of made me sick every time I would start. Traumatic. 


Please don’t force yourself to read it if it feels potentially painful! 


...Unless you are a professional, in which case, onward—please. 


I usually write first and foremost for my Autistic brethren, but this one is especially directed toward professionals. 


To be clear, this is a work in progress, a draft evolution of an inherently discriminatory and harmful system.

 

To that end, I have tried to eradicate words and phrases from the original text that were triggering, condescending, and discriminatory.

 

To offer just one relatively benign example, I might change the word “excessive”—which implies that the Autistic person is doing “too much” of something—to “intensive,“ which has the connotation that there’s a goodly amount of said activity, but doesn’t carry a negative  judgement or labeling aspect. 


I have included the general format and most of the original text, with updated language and descriptions of the differences we Autistic people share, as compared to neurotypical people, while attempting to erase the implicit and explicit negative connotations incorporated in the original text. 


The word “spectrum”—which I myself incorporated into my blog title more than a decade ago—is increasingly seen as an imperfect representation of our diversity, but I am not sure “wheel” (a more nuanced vision of neurodivergent variations) works in this setting, so I have simply removed the former.

 

I do want to say that even this updated criteria list can still be disturbing and upsetting. 


It’s really hard to be different in a world that does not always welcome, never mind celebrate, neurodivergence. 


That’s one of the reasons I set myself this task: to shift one element of this challenging world—these brutal diagnostic criteria—into something more useful, truer, more affirming.


Idea: Could these standards be subbed in for what clinicians use now in order to more realistically and fairly diagnose this common and equally valid neurological way of human being? 


Let me know what you think!!!


Autism DSM-5 diagnostic criteria: 


A. Persistent differences as compared to neurotypical social communication and social interaction across multiple contexts, as manifested by all of the following, currently or by history (examples are illustrative, not exhaustive; see text):

Differences in social-emotional reciprocity, ranging, for example, from unusual social approach and disinterest in typical back-and-forth conversation; to reduced or increased sharing of interests, emotions, or affect; to a lesser tendency to initiate or respond to social interactions.

Differences in nonverbal communicative behaviors used for social interaction, ranging, for example, from less integrated verbal and nonverbal communication; to variations in eye contact and body language or alterations in understanding and use of gestures; to a lower propensity for facial expressions and nonverbal communication.

Differences in developing, maintaining, and navigating relationships, ranging, for example, from challenges with adjusting behavior to suit various neurotypical social contexts; to difficulties in sharing standard neurotypical imaginative play or in making friends via standard neurotypical means; to a lower or higher level of interest in peers.

Specify current impact: Impact is based on social communication challenges and focused and/or repetitive patterns of behavior.


B. Focused patterns of behavior, interests, or activities, as manifested by at least two of the following, currently or by history (examples are illustrative, not exhaustive; see text):

Specific and/or repeated motor movements, use of objects, or speech (e.g., simple motor or vocal repetitions, lining up toys or flipping objects, idiosyncratic phrases).

Insistence on sameness, adherence to routines, or ritualized patterns of verbal/nonverbal behavior (e.g., distress around changes, difficulties with transitions, entrenched thinking patterns, greeting rituals, need to take the same route or eat the same food every day).

Highly focused interests that are extraordinary in intensity or specificity (e.g., strong attachment to or preoccupation with particular subjects or objects, very circumscribed or concentrated interest).

Higher or lower reactivity to sensory input compared to neurotypical standards or strong interests in sensory aspects of the environment (e.g., apparent indifference to pain/temperature, adverse response to specific sounds or textures, intensive smelling or touching of objects, visual fascination with lights or movement).

Specify current impact: Impact is based on social communication challenges and focused and/or repetitive patterns of behavior.


C. The above neurodivergence must be present in the early developmental period (but may not become fully manifest until neurotypical social demands increasingly misalign with neurodivergent capacities or may be masked by learned strategies in later life).


D. The above aspects of neurodivergence create significant impacts in social, occupational, or other important areas of current context.


E. These differences are not better explained by intellectual disability or global developmental delay. Intellectual disability and autism can co-occur; to make simultaneous diagnoses of autism and intellectual disability, social communication should vary from that expected for neurotypical developmental level.


Dear reader, thank you for taking this hard journey with me to reimagine these criteria, shifting from diagnosing a “problem” to describing a neurotype. 


Please be well and take care of yourself. Know that you are worthy. You matter. 


Little by little, we are together helping this world become more welcoming for all of us. 


Thanks and love,

Full Spectrum Mama






Tuesday, January 15, 2019

CONGRATULATIONS/MY HEART JUST BROKE

Dear Persons,

I'm trapped in the kitchen with two beloved friends who are having a conversation that is killing me. Their concerns — top colleges, will they have to pay full tuition or get merit-based scholarships — are so far from mine. And my heart is breaking.

I’m at an intramural basketball game and the people behind me are discussing their kids’ SAT scores. And my heart is breaking. 

I could go on. And on. 

It’s been a struggle to write this post, because I don’t want people to feel nervous about talking to me, and I would NEVER want my son to feel he was a problem or burden or less-than in any way. 

So let’s get a few things clear:
  1. I am happy for you and your child, truly I am.
  2. I WANT you to talk to me and around me, freely.
  3. I understand I am responsible for my own feelings.
  4. I’m extremely, EXTREMELY proud of my kid, who is wonderful and perfect, exactly as he is.

But, as much as all individuals and families have their issues, life raising a child with special needs and/or having special needs in a “normal”/neurotypical world is just not the same as it is for neurotypical/typically abled individuals and families. And it needs to be okay to talk about that — to normalize those feelings and share ways to help ourselves and our kids move toward achievement and success, however we/they define those things.

So I share this heartbreak here — where people with differences and extraordinary challenges, along with their parents and loved ones, gather in community.

Most kids my son’s age are now going to parties, dating, driving, working, doing average or above average or spectacularly on the SATs/ACTs, going to college or about to, even thinking (at least somewhat realistically and practically) about careers. 

While kids on the spectrum usually complete high school, that accomplishment often entails the extended timeframe and/or extra supervision/accommodations/modifications specified by an IEP. 

At the same time — for both parents and kids — it’s somewhat easy through these school years to act as if many differences weren’t really impacting our lives. Everyone has the same schedule, and the same projected schedule, year wise, more or less.

But fewer than 20 percent of adults on the spectrum complete college.

And only 14 percent of adults on the spectrum are employed. 

So much has been written by parents, researchers, and allies about the period of diagnosis. How parents often need to give up their basic, original, often unconscious/taken-for-granted (that is, until brought into question when differences and challenges arise) dreams for their child. And then, how to cope with all that: Ideally, we adjust those dreams, replacing them with new ones.

There's less information out there about how your CHILD can face the potential loss of his/her/their dreams, or how to do so yourself when it’s your own life dreams that may be extremely difficult to attain (or impossible). 

It’s hard to find insights about how people transitioning to adulthood can achieve their basic goals and dreams in the face of extraordinary obstacles, most of which stem from a larger culture that does not necessarily support — never mind celebrate — people who may do things a bit differently. 

And there are a lot fewer resources in general available for adults.

In G’s particular situation, he’s already facing obstacles. Sure, lots of kids won’t get into Cornell, even with lots of hard work. And maybe there are other kids who want to be ornithologists and will have to try extra hard to get there. 

But for him, even dreaming of college is huge — and it will require many, many intricate factors to be wedged into place to even begin the process of moving toward his goals. 

Will his heart break, even a little, as he inevitably confronts his unique challenges?

Maybe less than mine does: He’s been understood, accepted, usefully diagnosed, supported, celebrated in his neurodiversity in ways that my generation largely was not. He’s whole, self-aware, untraumatized.  

We all have our heartbreaks. Just the other day, I thoughtlessly told a childless friend who has struggled with infertility that I couldn’t meet her because of something that came up with my kids. I winced: I could tell I’d thoughtlessly hurt her heart. And I was unsure of what to say or do. 

You know what? I bet that’s how people sometimes feel around me. Or you. 

So I tried to say something loving, understanding, and supportive. 

I guess that’s what G and I would probably like as well; but people are often clueless about this stuff.

So we deal as best we can. Extricating ourselves from some conversations, initiating others (as I am doing here). Being genuinely celebratory of others' success while refusing to let unfair barriers keep us down. Doing the work we need to do to heal, grow, and succeed. Persevering. 

And I’m hoping that when my heart is breaking (which feels frequent nowadays) it’s also cracking open, getting bigger — and thereby creating space for more compassion/wisdom/generosity, more faith in my child, more commitment to my advocacy work. 



In the bigger picture though, the vicissitudes of my heart take a distant second place to  the importance of this amazing neurodiverse young person finding his way in the world. 

Just as I adjusted and grew far beyond my original ideas about my child’s life, I hope he will dream big. And if he ever has to give up one dream, I hope he will replace it with a bigger, better one, one that mitigates any heartbreak. I hope he dares to imagine a world made fundamentally more whole by his contributions…

I wish the same for all of you and yours. 

Love,
Full Spectrum Mama


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Tuesday, July 10, 2018

99 Problems





I can’t be the only person who sometimes feels the world is a minefield for anyone who is not a white, middle class or above, straight, neurotypical, cisgender, male, typically abled person with a resolved and “good” citizenship status.

Or maybe I am just an oversensitive rabble rouser. 


In any case, when I got this "special" handout after a medical appointment for my son:



...I felt aaaaaaalllllll the feelings. 

It’s hard to even respond effectively or “unemotionally” to these things that blindside you when you are just trying to get your kid’s toe looked at. (Or read a book, or go to a grocery store…I mean, you know what I mean: Unfortunately, discrimination and ignorance can pop up just about anywhere.) 

Here’s what I sent to the whole office, including individual doctors:


Dear [Medical Professional/Office],

Please see the attached partial shot of [G]’s handout (from a visit for an infected toe) from last week. 

While there is much that I could say about this — whether from a moral, legal, ethical, neurological, medical, and/or personal perspective — I will limit myself to this:
Imagine how you would feel as a human being (never mind as a CHILD) to see your way of being (the way you were born) casually maligned as a “problem” on a random medical take-home handout. 

While an individual’s spectrum status may arguably be relevant in some medical situations, an ingrown toenail is probably not one of them. In addition, your terminology is outdated. And your framing of this neurological difference — which in fact also brings many gifts — as a “problem” is quite simply cruel. 

Knowing your office and Dr. ____ (clearly a caring person), I have to assume this is an oversight. I ask on behalf of my family and all others with differences that you stop this practice and any others that may marginalize or denigrate your patients, however unintentionally.

Sincerely,
[Full Spectrum Mama], Ph.D. 




The Full Spectrums do have 99 problems (if you get my slightly inappropriate reference) — probably more like 999 — but “Asperger’s disorder” is not one. 

Love,
Full Spectrum Mama


Update: The doctor called and left a message apologizing and claiming oversight. I called back and left her a message saying I trust nothing like this will happen again to anyone in her office.

Le sigh. 





 
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Tuesday, September 12, 2017

HEY, YOU!

For Ozzie



Hey, you - you, who just got a label after years of searching for answers about yourself.

Hey, you - whose child or loved one just got a diagnosis.

Hey, you - who just gave birth to a child with a difference and/or disability.

Hey, you - who suddenly feel like it’s all too much, who don’t have it in you to cheerfully be different today. 

Are you spiraling? Of course you are. Do you feel like your life is being eclipsed? I’ll bet you do. 

Can you breathe? Just stop, take a moment - one moment! - and breathe. Between you and me and the fencepost, let’s face it: even one moment can be a lot to find what with all this diagnosis/labeling/disability/difference navigation business! But I am here to tell you that it is possible…Just the one. Try just that one moment of pausing to breathe.

(I was a Yoga teacher for a long time and one thing I learned was to teach only what you yourself practice. All that self-care stuff sounds great to me but…really? Who has the time and/or money? I know, though, that if I can find one moment to breathe you can too!)

Here’s the thing: there’s nothing wrong with you/your child/your loved one. It’s no one’s “fault.” Yes, the world wasn’t really designed for some of us - and there IS something wrong with people who discriminate, IMHO. But you (your child/loved one)? Perfectly imperfect just as you/he/she/they are. 

Sure, in time you/your child/loved one may benefit from certain interventions - whether medical (surgery, medication…), therapeutic (physical, psychiatric…), educational (IEP, tutoring…), etc. - but so much of that is designed to help us “fit in” to the world as it is, not necessarily as we are. No judgment!  Every individual and family must make their own choices! However, please never feel that these things “fix” you/your child/loved one; instead, they help us to function better in a certain, particular type of context

Here’s an example: students with ADHD can thrive without any medication or behavioral finagling in a variety of learning environments, many nature-based, but typically not including a standard classroom environment. Yet the standard classroom environment is what they usually encounter, which may lead to any number of challenges, including issues with self-esteem…

One of my best college friends and I were a tiny bit tipsy-ish one night and thought it would be really funny to call out to passersby with the hilarious words, “Hey, you with the internal organs!”  (Good come on, right?) 

This particular friend has had her challenges in her parenting journey, I can assure you, but her humor and accepting attitude have served her well.

Because hey, by the way, even if you DON’T have internal organs, those of us who have suffered for our differences and/or those of our loved ones tend to know and live true inclusion and thus we respect, accept, and honor you with no judgment regarding your internal organ status.

See, we’re all in this together - something I think those of us who’ve had to fight for our own inclusion or that of our loved ones realize early on. The fact that not all people see things this way is sad both for us and for those who don’t see this truth. 

So hey, you, you reading this post - either with your eyes or another organ, through being read to, or an assistive device - you are stronger than you know. And you are not alone. Wait till you meet some of these characters who get it, who’ve been there. 

Deep breath in, deep breath out...Welcome!

Love,
Full Spectrum Mama


P.S. The Bloggers in this Blog Hop might be a good place to start: 


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ds bloggers hosted by The Sensory Spectrum and The Jenny Evolution. Click on the links below to read stories from other bloggers about having a special needs kiddo -- from Sensory Processing Disorder to ADHD, from Autism to Dyslexia! Want to join in on next month's Voices of Special Needs Hop? Click here!